by Morgan Wonderly | Femininity
Hey Ladies,
I just learned that this Thursday, September 27th is National Scarf Day. It’s the first of its kind and founded by the classic scarf company, Echo.
I have had a scarf obsession for many years now. I find that they are the perfect complement to any outfit to add additional color and style. As an image expert, when I work with my female clients, I always help them accessorize with at least a couple of beautiful scarves in their signature colors.
For example, one of my signature colors is red,
so I will often accent a basic blue, navy, teal, or cream dress with my favorite red Echo neck scarf to add interest and flair. Men tell me they are attracted to these neck scarves on us because they are flirty, feminine and draw attention to our lovely faces, particularly our eyes and smiles. To emphasize your eyes, wear a scarf that matches your blue or green eyes. To emphasize your lips and smile, wear a pink or rose colored scarf. A patterned scarf with two or more of your signature colors adds even more visual appeal.
With longer scarves, there are so many different looks you can achieve by wearing and tying them in different ways. You can simply Google ways to wear scarves. You’ll be surprised at the countless images of fantastic, fun, feminine looks.
If you’d like more help to enhance your feminine image, contact me at morgan@morganwonderly.com.
Morgan Wonderly,
Author of Simply Feminine and Image Expert
by Morgan Wonderly | Femininity
Authentic Feminine Traits
Checklist of qualities to focus on when adding more femininity to your life:
- Heart centered
- Compassionate/Empathetic
- Healing
- Beautiful
- Colorful
- Flowing
- Receptive
- Kind/Warm
- Nesting
- Graceful
- Life-giving
- Relationship-oriented/Connecting
- Lighthearted
- Intuitive
- Soft/Sensual
- Adorning
- Feeling-oriented
- Responsive
- Influencing
- Girlish/Free-spirited
- Notice details
- Curvy
- Needs to be seen
- Wants to be adored
- Nurturing/Supportive
- Needs to feel safe
- Complex
- Radiant Energy
- Full Spectrum of Emotions
Authentic Masculine Traits
Checklist of qualities to look for when seeking a healthy male counterpart:
- Leader
- Protector
- Provider
- Linear
- Logical
- Direct
- Stable
- Strong
- Simple
- Loyal
- Persistent
- Rugged
- Decisive
- Builders
- Assertive
- Hard worker
- Dedicated
- Steadfast
- Focused
- Reliable
- Courageous
- Driven
- Nuts and bolts
- Practical
- Producer
- Task-oriented
- Built for speed
- Angular
- Sees the big picture
- Needs admiration
- Motivated to be heroes
To learn much more about the masculine and the feminine and why we need both, check out my book, Simply Feminine: Surprising Insights from Men.
Ladies: If you’d love to enhance your feminine appearance, be sure to check out my makeovers and makeover services at SimplyFeminineMakeover.com and get your Free Image Evaluation at SimplyFeminineMakeover.com/mystyle.
by Morgan Wonderly | Femininity
- Soften your edges.
- Focus on the love in your heart.
- Practice being warm and kind to others.
- Practice surrendering to life.
- Relax more, breath deeper.
- Be open to receive.
- Be responsive to your man.
- Show your radiant smile.
- Be nurturing.
- Wear attractive colors.
- Create beauty around you.
- Beautify yourself.
- Feel gratitude for what you have.
- Practice admiring men.
- Move gracefully.
- Accentuate your curves.
- Laugh often.
- Go Barefoot.
- Choose to be happy.
- Be lighthearted and playful.
- Be curious about life.
- Forget your age and be youthful.
- Wear longer hair.
- Practice sensual rituals.
- Practice vulnerability.
- Use your intuition.
- Wear dresses/skirts.
- Think girl-next-door freshness.
- Practice the art of touch.
- Be classy in appearance and attitude.
To learn much more about the masculine and the feminine and why we need both, check out my book, Simply Feminine: Surprising Insights from Men.
Ladies: If you’d love to enhance your feminine appearance, be sure to check out my makeovers and makeover services at SimplyFeminineMakeover.com and get your Free Image Evaluation at SimplyFeminineMakeover.com/mystyle.
by Morgan Wonderly | Femininity
Authentic Feminine Traits
Checklist of qualities to focus on when adding more femininity to your life:
- Heart centered
- Compassionate/Empathetic
- Healing
- Beautiful
- Colorful
- Flowing
- Receptive
- Kind/Warm
- Nesting
- Graceful
- Life-giving
- Relationship-oriented/Connecting
- Lighthearted
- Intuitive
- Soft/Sensual
- Adorning
- Feeling-oriented
- Responsive
- Influencing
- Girlish/Free-spirited
- Notice details
- Curvy
- Needs to be seen
- Wants to be adored
- Nurturing/Supportive
- Needs to feel safe
- Complex
- Radiant Energy
- Full Spectrum of Emotions
Authentic Masculine Traits
Checklist of qualities to look for when seeking a healthy male counterpart:
- Leader
- Protector
- Provider
- Linear
- Logical
- Direct
- Stable
- Strong
- Simple
- Loyal
- Persistent
- Rugged
- Decisive
- Builders
- Assertive
- Hard worker
- Dedicated
- Steadfast
- Focused
- Reliable
- Courageous
- Driven
- Nuts and bolts
- Practical
- Producer
- Task-oriented
- Built for speed
- Angular
- Sees the big picture
- Needs admiration
- Motivated to be heroes
To learn much more about the masculine and the feminine and why we need both, check out my book, Simply Feminine: Surprising Insights from Men.
Ladies: If you’d love to enhance your feminine appearance, be sure to check out my makeovers and makeover services at SimplyFeminineMakeover.com and get your Free Image Evaluation at SimplyFeminineMakeover.com/mystyle.
by Morgan Wonderly | Femininity
“Enlightened or not, you are either a man or a woman, so on the level of your form identity you are not complete. You are one-half of the whole. This incompleteness is felt as male-female attraction, the pull towards the opposite energy polarity, no matter how conscious you are.”
– Eckhart Tolle, author of The Power of Now
The Importance of Polarity
For the sake of love between men and women, we need to restore masculine and feminine polarity. Just as opposite poles of magnets irresistibly pull together, gender polarity creates a powerful, dynamic sexual attraction when the opposite poles of masculine and feminine come into proximity. The experience we women have when we feel a weak-in-the-knees urge to swoon around a man with potent masculine energy exemplifies the power of this magnetic polarity. Its power is so great we sometimes feel helpless to its beckoning.
We may see couples with a connection so strong, we wonder, “What’s their secret?” Most likely that secret is their polarity; their strongly contrasting masculine/feminine energies. Polarity is what creates the inner fire that enlivens us when we encounter our counterpart. Polarity is what makes us feel “crazy” about each other and inspires us to great heights. When we take our femininity away from relationships, we take away polarity.
The differences between men and women create a sexual tension that draws us powerfully toward each other. The interplay between the masculine and feminine balances us when we unite. Feminine attributes are complemented and enhanced by masculine attributes. Contrasts between masculine and feminine can create immense value for us because where one gender lacks a strength, the other is likely stronger.
As a metaphor, observe the yin-yang symbol representing complementary essences. One side is black and the other is white. Both are equal in size and value. There is no inferior or superior. Each side has a smaller circle in it with the opposite energy. Similarly, when united, the feminine and masculine principles are complementary yet equal, forming a whole greater than the sum of its parts.
So, why should differences between men and women be seen as problematic? Men realize that feminine women complement them. I found they freely admit that a feminine woman is of great value to them because they feel most masculine in her presence. As she admires and appreciates her man, he wants to further impress her to win even more of her admiration. Thus, her admiration fuels his desire to provide for her and protect her. It’s a positive feedback loop that not only bonds the two together, but also makes both genders feel happy and fulfilled.
- In what specific ways have you noticed the genders blurring, if any?
- What does gender polarity mean to you?
- Why do you think we have stopped celebrating the inherent differences between men and women?
Learn more on this topic in my book at Amazon…Simply Feminine: Surprising Insights from Men. Praised and Endorsed by John Gray of Men Are from Mars, Women are from Venus”.
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